Good day gentlemen,

I am seeking the soul, the heart, the spirit that is strong enough to capture my attention for a lifetime.

So far, I've dealt with over 8 years of patience, hoping my being single would change. It has not. So, I now am looking in this format.

I currently live in Oklahoma City, and my guy should be willing to travel to meet and possibly relocate here. I am unable to relocate at this time.

I am a large, versatile bear of 5'11” and 250. A man of 51, 52 on Cinco de mayo. I am mostly attracted to small to muscular men of all ethnicities. The ideal guy? 5'0-5'9”, 100-150 lbs, hispanic, latin, native american, asian, etc. Now, just because I state “small to muscular”, that does not mean that any other man would have the chemistry that is right for me. It really will be the chemistry that will decide.

There are many things that I miss about having a partner to share my life with.

Like, watching my partner trying to grill a steak to perfection just for me... while I am silently bonding on the inside all over again.

Or, frolicking in a huge pile of leaves that took hours to rake, and not caring that it will have to be done again.

Or, laying down with my head in his lap while we are watching a film. I wake later to realize that the film is long over and he has been stroking my hair, watching me sleep.

Or, coming up behind my partner and hugging him, kissing the nape of his neck, and whispering how much I love him in his ear.

No doubt, there are more, but... anyway.

A little about me: I claim to be the most romantic and passionate man in the world. I may be wrong, since I have no one to tell me if it is true or not.

I am not afraid to show emotion, and have been known to shed tears for beautiful Art, for an emotional film, or for astounding performances by a Symphony or Opera company.

On the flip side, I would be the one sitting beside you, squeezing your knee, during an action thriller!

Or, the one losing my voice as I presume to know better how to run a play on the football field than those calling the shots.

Please feel free to say hi. And, if so moved to ask questions, please keep the questions at the same level as how well you know me.

And, I am sorry, I do not know Spanish. If you speak or write only Spanish, please have one of your friends translate for me before you write.

In anticipation,
Neal

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